Scorpio Compatibility: The Best and Worst Matches for the Passionate Water Sign

Think Aries, Cancer, and Virgo for the former; and Gemini, Leo, and Sagittarius for the latter.

Scorpios are the eighth sign of the zodiac and are known to be intensely passionate, deeply emotional, and mostly private people.
The fixed water sign is most compatible with Aries, Cancer, and Virgo; and they are least compatible with Gemini, Leo, and Sagittarius.
However, astrological compatibility is not the be-all, end-all when it comes to romantic connection. With the right amount of communication and understanding, any two signs can make it work.

Fixed water sign Scorpios, co-ruled by action-oriented Mars and transformative Pluto, are power-seeking and intense. They exhibit a reverence for their elders and family, have no problem swimming in the deep end of their emotions, and are unflinchingly resolute when they’re passionate about something—or someone. That type of ferocity may have you wondering about Scorpio compatibility.

You may be asking questions like "Which zodiac signs are most compatible with Scorpio?" or "Can a relationship work between my sign and the new object of my affection, who just so happens to be a Scorpio?" To answer those questions, it's necessary to give a bit of context on how the stars are set up for these passionate water signs.

As the ruler of the eighth house in astrology—which oversees deep emotional connections, death (taken literally, as well as natural endings and losses in life), rebirth and transformation (think surgeries or psychotherapy), and joint resources (a.k.a. money involving others, like inheritances or investments)—Scorpios are comfortable getting up close and personal with the darker side of life. If you’re similarly passionate, up for emotional intensity, and want to forge a long-lasting, intimate bond, you’ll likely get along with a Scorpio.

Ahead, Scorpio’s compatibility with all 12 signs of the zodiac.

Scorpio and Aries: Full of Potential

Aries, the first sign of the zodiac and the cardinal fire sign, and Scorpio are quincunx—or five signs apart—which is one of the quirkier, more awkward angles in astrology. The main thing these two share is their ruler: fiery, action-oriented, dynamic Mars—which means both have no problem going after what they want. However, Aries is lighthearted, playful, childlike, and somewhat immature, while Scorpio seeks intense intimacy, devotion, and transformation. These two could spark quickly…and then realize it’ll take a good deal of work to stay in sync.

You can get the most accurate idea of how you match with a partner by looking at your whole natal chart. (Running a synastry report on a site like CafeAstrology.com or doing a reading with a professional astrologer can offer the most accurate, individualized insight.)

Scorpio and Taurus: Opposites Attract

Taurus, the fixed earth sign, and Scorpio are opposite, or six signs apart. They’ll either feel like they complete one another or are destined to go their own ways. Taurus is practical and grounded, while Scorpio is often swept up in waves of emotion. The good news is that Taurus can offer Scorp a stabilizing vibe, while Scorp can help Taurus get comfier with spiritual growth. That said, they could find themselves at a dead end if neither is willing to adapt. (But be forewarned: Since both signs are fixed, meaning they are steadfast by nature, this could be a near-impossible compromise.)

Scorpio and Gemini: Mismatched

Scorpio is quincunx, or five signs apart from, Gemini, the third sign of the zodiac—which is an awkward angle that can lead to, at best, confusion and, at worst, discord. Even when they’re head over heels in love, Gemini wants to be free as a bird—while resolute Scorpio is wired to commit mind, body, and spirit. It can be difficult for these two to find common ground in terms of how they identify with and express their emotions. Making it work will be all about loving just how different they are from one another.

Scorpio and Cancer: Outlook Good

Cancer, the fourth sign of the zodiac and the cardinal water sign, is trine—or four signs apart from—Scorpio, which is one of the most natural, pleasurable, well-matched pairings in the zodiac. Both are sensitive, intuitive, even slightly psychic water signs who put family first and have no problem swimming in the depths of all of their feelings. The Crab’s loyal attachment style perfectly suits the Scorpion’s natural possessiveness, and lovemaking is spiritual, transformative, and deeply sensual. Cancers also tend to be homebodies, which pleases the mostly private Scorpio—and might even encourage them to open up emotionally.

Scorpio and Leo: Problematic Pair

Leo, the fifth sign of the zodiac and the fixed fire sign, is square—or three signs apart from—Scorpio, which makes for an intense, dramatic, and possibly challenging pairing. Both magnetic signs are wired to take charge and are extremely aware of their inner power, resulting in clashing egos and willfulness. However, they can also stimulate each other intellectually. Scorp’s natural possessiveness could be a turnoff to independent Leo. Nonetheless, both tend to see sex as an empowering form of self-expression. If nothing else, a lustful physical connection can make sparks fly.

Scorpio and Virgo: Ideal Match

Virgo, the sixth sign of the zodiac and the mutable earth sign, is sextile—or two signs apart from—Virgo, which can make for calm waters. Both tend to be pretty reserved, loyal, and deep thinkers. Scorpio is more in their feelings—and more interested in stepping into a position of power—than heady, serviceable Virgo. This difference can make them a duo to be reckoned with. They’ll work together in a diligent, calculated way toward their shared ideal endgame.

Scorpio and Libra: It's Complicated

Scorpio is semisextile, or one sign apart from, Libra—which can set up a bit of discomfort and misunderstanding. Scorpios take life seriously, feel incredibly intensely, and are often consumed by stealthy plotting. Meanwhile, effervescent Libras prefer to be in the moment and care more about making an impression on their social circles. Both value intimacy, closeness, and charm, so they can find common ground.

Scorpio and Scorpio: In Sync

Two Scorpios together will create a bond that's passionate—for better or worse. They're wired to let their partner in emotionally and get attached in an otherworldly, incredibly intense way, which can make for an unbreakable commitment. Two Scorps will likely create a cozy home and build a family life they're both proud of and attached to. However, the pair should be mindful to avoid power games. Too much of that energy could cause this otherwise fireworks-inducing match to self-combust.

Scorpio and Sagittarius: Not Meant to Be

Sagittarius, the ninth sign of the zodiac and the mutable fire sign, is semisextile, or one sign apart from, Scorpio—which generally makes for an awkward connection. Sag loves being around people, and Scorp is more of a homebody. Sag needs freedom and space. For them, bigger is better—and they have no problem blurting out their fiery opinions. This can leave super-private Scorp cringing. Scorp’s possessive and stubborn vibe can be a turnoff for Sag. That said, both love to explore—a shared passion that may lead them to get along just fine.

Scorpio and Capricorn: Highly Compatible

Capricorn, the 10th sign of the zodiac and the cardinal earth sign, is sextile—or two signs apart from—Scorpio, making for a friendly, easygoing bond. Both are determined to be recognized, to achieve, and to obtain power and influence. They have what it takes to put in hard work and be quite the power couple. The only hitch is that Cap wants to appear cool, collected, and in control, while Scorpio’s fiery, Mars-influenced feelings can be all-encompassing. They might each need to be flexible to get on the same page.

Scorpio and Aquarius: Better as Friends

Aquarius, the 11th sign of the zodiac and the fixed air sign, is square, or three signs apart from, Scorpio—which is, at worst, a tense connection and, at best, an activating one. Water Bearers are notoriously friendly but aloof, future-minded but stubborn, and idealistic but contrarian. Scorpio can’t help but feel, intuit, and even psychically tap into the shadow side of life. As two fixed signs, both might refuse to pivot from their go-to game plan, resulting in a stalemate. However, they can also teach one another a lot about perspectives.

Scorpio and Pisces: Signs Point to Yes

Pisces, the 12th sign of the zodiac and mutable water sign, is trine—or four signs apart from—Scorpio, which is considered the most harmonious bond between two signs. Both feel deeply, are in touch with their spirituality, possibly very psychic, and up for an otherworldly, jaw-droppingly romantic relationship. Scorp might be frustrated by Pisces’s passive vibe, and Pisces can be overwhelmed by Scorpio’s intensity. In general, the Scorpion can help the Fish turn their vivid dreams into action, while the Fish can show the Scorpion the beauty of going with the flow.

The Takeaway

Remember that regardless of how compatible—or not—your sign appears to be with Scorpio, sun sign compatibility is just one piece of a huge puzzle.

If you're ever tempted to roast Scorpios as terrifying control freaks, be sure to take a closer look at your birth chart. You'll see everyone—even you—has some dynamic Scorpio vibes in them. Taking note of where it expresses itself can empower you to make the most of it.

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